Changing our profile is always a reflection of the experience we are having with the site. Single men don't seem to understand the context or the focus of our profile.. WE DO NOT WANT TO MEET MARRIED MEN PRETENDING TO BE SINGLE. We aren't looking for anyone out of town, and if we politely decline, please don't resort to whining just because some strangers online just told you, no. We ask questions, so we are going to find out you are lying anyway, so please don't waste your time or ours by writing and trying convince us she will be okay with the situation you are trying to get yourself into with us. It's not fair to her and it's not fair to us, so don't try to convince us that you have "permission".

Min Idealperson EDIT: If your opening line will be, " I'm in a loveless, sexless marriage.." WE ARE NOT INTERESTED IN YOU. That is something for you to work on with your spouse, not us.We are looking for like-minded individuals or couples that want to explore their sexuality in all it's wonderful aspects. We are not interested in finding men who think they can show up, pull their pants down, get their rocks off, pull up their pants and leave .. we do not want to meet men alone in town for the weekend and you're not going to convince us that you are some super stud with a golden cock that will solve anything. We do our best to be polite, even when declining but some of you guys love to fuck that shit up with your incessant whining.