How long a minute is depends on what side of the bathroom door you're on. I am no longer a member but can be reached at AdultFriendFinder Dominant and kinky. Professional and intense, enjoys the power exchange, control (both the mental and physical), open communication that D/s offers and all of life's experiences -- if it is not fun...why do it? Enjoys spoiling my partner. � "Never ask for more than you are willing to give." I enjoy that person that silently craves/needs to give up control. The proper acting professional -- but over time you realized you are/want to be a slut to that one special person and enjoy a good sound spanking. Being bound and blindfolded on your knees - not knowing what will happen next. Bending over wondering if this will be the time he takes your ass - again? Then laying in bed -- cuddling and recovering then spreading open at his request and starting all over. There is something special about a quiet evening in front of the fire, a dinner at your favorite restaurant, a night out at the theater, a night on the town, a weekend in the mountains, maybe with him whispering in your ear how you will be taken and used at the end of the evening or both of you discussing 1001 uses for clothespins and then seeing if all 1001 can fit, laughing, joking and do not take life too serious -- looking like any other couple -- but if they only knew.... �