I am a reasonably smart, fun, adventurous woman. I just ended a 5 year relationship so Im not ready to commit to another relationship just yet but I do crave the satisfaction of a good roll in the hay. Im real and I dont play games. I expect the same of the people I choose to have a sexual connection with. I have known sadness and I would much rather be happy, light and carefree. If you dont take yourself too seriously and you have a good sense of humor, thats a good start. Check out my profile and see if there is any interest and we can go from there.

Min Idealperson My ideal person is someone that is comfortable with who they are, has some idea of what they want and actively pursues getting what they set their minds on. I am hoping to find someone that isnt looking for anything too serious, but if some kind of real connection were made I wouldnt have a problem with that. Im just not looking for that right now and my ideal person wouldnt be either. The person or persons would be good at communicating so that no weird feelings develop and boundaries are established and respected. Ultimately they would be close in age to me, though that isnt a really big deal. And I would prefer someone that isnt in a long term relationship that they are stepping out on someone. Again, also not a deal breaker. The other person is ultimately responsible for how they treat the people in their lives and has to be responsible for their own actions. Lastly, and maybe most importantly, they would have a great sense of humor. That trait, more than looks, is what I would place the greatest importance on for deciding whether or not to engage physically with them. Ultimately, At this age in my life, I value laughter over looks. Dont get me wrong, I wouldnt hate it if they were easy on the eyes too.