Hi, I'm an attractive, older, BBW (plus size) sexually submissive woman in search of a Dominant man looking for an emotionally monogamous relationship with the potential for marriage at some point in the future. I enjoy the traditional aspects of a conventional relationship but my sexual desires are not societally conventional. You understand the importance of and believe in aftercare. Within certain guidelines we would both agree upon, we would be free to explore physical relationships either together or individually. I would welcome a bi partner although I myself am not bi. I am not looking for a polyamorous relationship. Other partners would only be side dishes. Never main courses. The bad stuff and not so bad stuff: I am a light smoker. I do not smoke in the house. Light social drinker. Do not use drugs. Disease free. I seek someone who has done well for themselves financially. I don't come to the table empty handed but you are likely to have done better than I have. You are retired or interested in retiring soon. You are interested in beachfront living and would have an interest in relocating to Hawaii. You enjoy traveling and cruising but also have your own interests. I'm sure I will be judged for this but I am not interested in supporting my partner financially and giving up my dreams. You must be compassionate and non judgmental. Accepting of others who may have been less fortunate in life. Not an elitist. Comfortable enjoying the finer things in life but understand money doesn't buy happiness and that some of the best things in life are free. I am educated and have spent my life caring for others. I am ready to partake in things I enjoy with a like minded partner. Honesty is paramount. If you respond, please don't tell me what you think I want to hear.

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