54, and a late blooming trans flower. I don't show all the years but like nails in a fencepost they've left their marks. What I am looking for might be what I am looking for! In other words, even I am not 100% sure what it is that I seek. I can tell you if you are in your 70's and have no pictures in your profile and you come messaging me, it's probably not you. If you are within a few years of me and no pics, it's STILL probably not you but you can try. In the end, I'm kind of dismissive of profiles here of ANY age without pics or even just 1 or 2. I mean, if you want to lie to yourself about what you are here for that's on you but leave me out of it. What I can say about what I am looking for is that I am freaky and like reciprocation and I am open to things and open minded about them. While I may not rush to the play mat I will not judge you for what you like or want. I will say the one thing I'll almost universally judge you for is simply dishonesty. Every lie is a shackle and like above, if you wanna shackle yourself leave me out of it :) If you wanna shackle me, well then let's talk ;) I have turns on's and turn off's and I'll be honest though hopefully tactful about them. You should be too. I don't mind married folks but I do mind being a concealed cheating outlet. If you are fucking around on a spouse or partner, pass me by.

Min Idealperson Um... a Pulse. That's a big one. Deal breaker really.
Same species... generally speaking. I mean, if yer an alien or something, fuck it. Hit me up and we can talk but I am not promissing anything. If you and me fucking mean junior is gunna gnaw his way out of ME through my chest then we gots to use a rubber.
Kind and Decent - You ain't gotta be Mother Teresa but you can't be Trump
Brizain - If you ain't got one you ain't gunna enjoy hanging out with me much anyways.
Wizard/Sorceress - this is not a deal breaker but if you do happen to have magical powers that can edit the fabric of reality then I'd totally be ok with that and with your using them on my behalf preferably to provide unfair life advantages.