We are in this together and hope you & your partner are too! If we chat with you and your other half is always at work or just reads the conversations please move along, we aren't the couple for you .. This is only enjoyable for us if everyone participates! What are we looking for... We are currently looking for couples only who are secure in their relationship. Single ladies and men, we will contact you if we are interested. We want to meet couples who aren't in a hurry to jump right in the sack. We're looking for long term friendships, couples we can grab dinner or drinks with, go out dancing, or sit by a fire and relax. Once everybody is comfortable, maybe then things can continue on into the bedroom. We are open to both soft and full swap, same room only play. We love to start off chatting but are only interested in chatting if all parties are involved. We want couples who can carry a conversation about almost anything, not just sex. Her in his words; foreplay is key and for her it starts with the mind. She finds intelligence sexy, start with that and her body will follow. She prefers to be the submissive one but knows how to take control when it's needed. She loves her man, loves to laugh and of course, having orgasms. She is sexy, fun, flirty, orally skilled and knows how to ride. Him in her words; he is witty, charming and hung. He is a great conversationalist and will lead on the dance floor as well as in the bedroom. His fingers are magical and his tongue can work wonders. He is a blue collar man's man but knows how and when to be soft and sensual. We have had a couple of experiences but are still very much new to the lifestyle. We are open to both experienced couples who understand our limited experience as well as newbies who want to learn together!