Athletic, sensual, intelligent, white collar professional and adventurous with a wicked sense of humor. Raised in the South and have the manners to prove it...and Southern charm too. I NEED mental connection along with the mutual physical which brings some here. It makes the physical so much more pleasurable for both of us. And enjoying time together outside of the bedroom is good. Laughter is a great start! Now for the good part...I love uninhibited play in the bedroom, shower, kitchen, park...ah, you get the idea. I'm assertive (nurturing with dominant) but it is not a requirement. We get to know each other. You trust, and let go...some say surrender, and I lead. Then we smile. Dominant is not domineering or abusive. I'm not a sadist. Google "power transfer"....let's just say I like it raw; our minds to shut down and our bodies take over. This is not an must have but does work well for me. I'm not pushy or in a rush. Good luck finding what you seek. It does happen here. Cheers

Min Idealperson But my ideal matches are women who have a lot of will power and of course a very healthy and strong libido. In other words, woman who have a lot in common with me. I gets lots of flirts and emails so please don't bother contacting me unless you plan on meeting me. Likewise if I flirt or hotlist you that means I'm interested in getting together. (Update: Recently I’ve been having trouble with flirts and hot lists not loading, so it’s best to email me if you want my attention.) So what are you waiting for, send me a massage! Even standard members can email me! Don't wait for me to email you, I haven't initiated unsolicited email contact with someone in years... I will give priority those those who email me or become top fans, then to people who flirt or hotlist me.