Before you judge me, please read my entire profile. I am not looking to have a secret affair that my wife doesn’t know about. She does and will know everything. The “discreet” part in my profile is referring to people other than you, my wife and myself. I am sorry if you have had a bad experience in the past but not all men, married or otherwise are jerks and the ones that are ruin it for all. So please, let’s talk before you block my profile. I am 65, about 6 feet tall 200 lbs. I have a gray hair mixed in with the brown and I am usually clean shaven. I like to give oral almost more than I like to receive it. I get a great deal of satisfaction out of knowing that I am giving my partner an orgasm. I very much like making my partner cum over and over. I like to use a variety of positions and locations, not just the bedroom. I am happily married going on 43 years this year. My wife is my age and for whatever reason she allows me to be with other women, with and without her, but she is not interested in being with another man. She would be very interested in the right women, and is currently looking. I am not looking to cheat on my wife. My marriage is more important to me than trying to have a secret fling with anyone. She will know about you, before anything happens between us. She already knows I am doing this. This may sound unusual coming from a man but I am not looking to have sex with every woman in the world. I am not looking for quantity, I am looking for a quality relationship where we both get to know each other. I am not specifically looking to just fuck someone either, I much prefer to make love to my partner than just bang them. If all you want is to be banged into unconsciousness, then maybe we are looking for different things. It is very important to me that my partner also gets something out of the experience as well. I am not looking for a one time only thing either.

Min Idealperson I am not looking for a relationship other than friendship and mutual gratification. I have seen listings with the term “ friends with privileges or benefits “ this is what I am looking for. Ideally, I am looking for a long term relationship. Lets talk and see where it might lead. Ideally I am looking for someone that I can talk to as well as pleasure. I will be up front with you, as I will want you to be up front with me. I would very much like to get to know you so I can learn to please you more fully. Learn your likes and dislikes. I truly feel that the most personal thing a women can do is to share her body with someone and I try my best to show my appreciation for that person sharing with me. If it is agreeable by all involved, it would be great if you and my wife could become friends as well. Not a critical point but might be nice.

If I am messaging you, that means that I feel that I meet the criteria of your profile or on the flip side there is nothing in your profile that leads me to believe that you are not interested in someone like myself. It also means that your profile does not specify single or unattached males. If you are not interested in attached men then accept my apologies and if you would add that to your profile it may not stop all the attached men, but it would have stopped me from contacting you. A simple no thank you, not interested will suffice. It also means that I am willing to travel to you on a regular / semi-regular basis. The details of this can be discussed in a future email.

As far as the IDEAL person/s designation is concerned, if I am message you that means I am interested in at least talking with you before I pass judgment on you. Please give me the same consideration. A LTR would also be nice, but again not critical. I realize that you can’t have a second encounter without a first and sometimes it may not work out but like I already mentioned, I am definitely not looking for one night stands. As far as a body type that I am looking for, again, if I am contacting you I am interested in what you put in your profile and am willing to take the time to find out more about you. I am not Ken or Biff so I am not looking for Barbie or Buffy. Let’s talk and see where it leads before either of us writes the other off. Who knows, we might become very good friends in and out of the bedroom. Let’s find out together.

I will answer all that respond, however I will answer the ones with photo'’s first. The photo doesn't have to be a nude. It would be nice from my standpoint but it is not a necessity. Since there needs to a certain amount of physical attraction on both sides, a face and body picture would be nice.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. Let’s talk and see where it leads
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Vilken typ av sexuella aktiviteter gör dig kåt?:
Ge Oralsex, Få Oral Sex, Trekant

Vilka faktorer är viktigast för dig när du söker en sexpartner?:
Kroppslig attraktion, Förmågan att vara diskret

Har du någonsin haft cybersex?:
Jag har provat det, men det är inte detsamma.

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