I am a dominant man desiring to embrace a SSC BDSM lifestyle. My partner is not interested in pursuing this course with me. I am a tall, well-built professional with a few tattoos and no piercings. I am D&D free. My kinks include power exchange, flogging, whips, canes, extreme control, life doll, sensation play, directive play, gagging, water sports, stretching. I am not into blood, scat, beastiality, or anything completely unsafe. I am completely comfortable with couples and would be fine with multiple submissives. For me, D/s is less about my own sexual release and more about power and control (though sometimes release is necessary).